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Youth Program Guide

Youth Program Guide 

2005-2006

We are very excited to introduce our new and expanded catalog of youth programming for 2005-2006. It is our hope that all of the youth connected to First Parish will find one way or many ways to connect with the other youth and the wider church community. There are several ways you can find out what’s up with the youth.

Check out the website – all downloadable documents will be there
What’s the Deal monthly mailing – find out what we’re doing on Sunday nights
Weekly e-mails – make sure the Youth Director (Mary-Wren vanderWilden) knows your e-mail address
Meeting House News
Or simply call the Youth Director at (978) 369-9602 x427
Downloadable Forms

Fall Retreat Form 2005
Youth Code of Conduct

Youth Ministry

Youth Group

Our youth group is called YRUU (Young Religious Unitarian Universalists). We meet every Sunday evening (Mondays on 3 day weekends) from 7:00- 9:00 p.m. We “check-in” with each other each week and then do everything from discuss issues in our lives to play games to worship. This youth-led group is open and welcome to everyone whether you come each week or drop in when you can.

Retreats and Lock-ins

We go on two camping retreats per year and hold lock-ins at the church throughout the year. While on retreat, we build community, relax, enjoy nature and have fun. We will be going to Mayromai again this year from September 30 to October 2. In the winter we will continue our tradition of going to the Reilly’s in New Hampshire from January 27 –29.

Youth Advisory Council

YAC is a committee of youth leaders and a few caring and connected adults that meet once a month to plan and coordinate First Parish’s youth programs with the Youth Director. YAC is made up of youth from each grade level. If you are interested in a fun leadership opportunity, then see the Youth Director or one of the senior leaders: Tom Schnitzer, Elena Siani, Christina Teylouni, Rosie Nevins, Celia Hipsman or Alexa Sirotof.

Pastoral Care

Time to Talk

A TIME TO TALK (TTT) is an open forum for youth to talk in a small group or individual setting about important life questions and events. This is an opportunity for youth to share and discuss stress and sadness related to school, family, relationships, disease, or any other issues they are facing. The group will be facilitated by youth trained in listening skills and supported by present adult leaders. TTT will meet every Sunday in the chapel from 5:30 to 6:30 before Youth Group starting in October.

Senior High OWL (Our Whole Lives)

SOWL for 10th – 12th graders builds on the facts and skills learned in the 8th grade OWL program by meeting high school age youth where they are with regard to relationships and sexuality. We will discuss different aspects of high school relationships such as: what makes a good relationship, communication, sexual options and expression, sexual orientation, and power and control. We will also work on skills needed for developing and maintaining, and ending, romantic and sexual relationships that are consensual, nonexploitative, safe, and based on readiness, respect, mutual expectations and caring. (Note: Mandatory Parent Orientation in October)

Teachers: Peter Fischelis and Susannah Elliot

Class Times: 4 Tuesday from 7:00 – 9:00: Nov. 1, Dec. 6, Feb. 7 and Mar. 7, and a Lock-in on Friday and Saturday, Jan. 6 & 7

Youth Social Action

Just Neighbors

“Just Neighbors” is a 2 day workshop for adults and youth together to explore issues around homelessness that will help in understanding the daily struggles of those who live with restricted resources. In the winter the group will join the City Reach retreat, sponsored by Ecclesia Ministries (Common Cathedral), as an introduction to the lives of the homeless in Boston. Join us for this engaging and inspiring study of poverty and discover ways in which we can help.

Teachers: Mark Richards

Class Times: Saturday, November 12 and March 4 from 9:00 – 4:00 with a “City Reach” overnight in the winter

Youth Social Action Committee

YSAC meets once a month to plan and organize social action opportunities for youth. This group explores how youth can go out into the world and make it a better place. If you are interested in being part of this group, then contact Tracey Bird and Linda Proulx who will continue to work with YSAC this year.

Religious Education Assistants

Youth can work with children on Sunday mornings in the RE program. They can earn community service credit as well. Contact Carol Duane at First Parish if interested.

Worship

Worship Leaders – Youth Service

Youth can help plan and participate in the Youth Service which will be on April 2 this year. We will have a Lock-in on March 10-11 to begin the planning process.

Sunday Morning Worship

Youth are warmly invited to be readers or make announcements at Sunday morning services. Sometimes youth lead worship for the children in the Chapel as well. Please contact our ministers, Gary Smith and/or Jenny Rankin, if you are interested.

Coming of Age

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Coming of Age brings together all of the RE experiences our children have had to this point in their lives. It is the rite of passage that we at First Parish provide to our children as they step over the threshold from childhood to youth on their way to adulthood. During this half-year curriculum, we offer our ninth-graders an opportunity to explore their values and spirituality so that they can articulate what they believe using the symbols and vocabulary that fit them best. It is our hope that this program becomes the first step in a life-long spiritual journey.

9th Grade Coming of Age - 2011-12  

The Goals of Coming of Age

  • To create an internal sacred space to reflect on your beliefs, values, and cares.
  • To express your own beliefs within the context of Unitarian Universalism.
  • To mark the beginning of your own spiritual path through life.
  • To put our First Parish Benediction in action.

To accomplish these goals we have broken the program activities down into five categories:

  • Getting to know each other begins here tonight and will encompass the first few weeks of the program.
  • Social Action is an important component of our Church's activities, and we include an event in the fall and the spring.
  • Gathering the background information builds the context for the youth to know about herself (or himself). It includes learning about UU history, family history, and exploring personal values.
  • Exploring beliefs offers new thoughts and opportunities for the kids to consider. Different vocabularies and symbol systems that they may not have heard about, or may have heard about be never really understood.
  • And finally, the Coming of Age, which includes the final retreat and solo as well as the presentation of credos to the congregation.

The Coming of Age program culminates with a Sunday morning recognition service that allows the youth to share their individual credos with the First Parish community.

Babysitting Notebook

Babysitting Notebook

First Parish in Concord is pleased to announce the first updating of its Babysitting Resource Notebook. The notebook will be emptied in order to obtain current information. All interested babysitters and cooperating families should complete a new form. Children aged 10 and above and adults of all ages are encouraged to sign-up. Blank forms can be obtained from here or from the main office. We recommend that all concerned check references and interview to thoroughly assess qualifications. We hope this resource will continue to help many families within our church community. The notebook is available upon request in the office.

These forms are Adobe PDF. Print them out, fill them in, and send to the First Parish office

About First Parish

The New UU

The New UU is a program offered three times a year that presents an overview of our liberal religious tradition with its beginnings, growth, legacies, and aspirations. You will also learn about First Parish — our organization, programs, opportunities, leaders and financial situation — as presented by its staff and lay leaders.

You will explore whether your own beliefs and values are consonant with Unitarian Universalism, and how our faith community might meet your needs. Open to newcomers who are interested in learning more about Unitarian Universalism, as well as to seasoned members who would like to revitalize their interest and commitment.

The next New UU workshops will take place on Saturdays, January 22nd  and April 9th from 8:30-12:30, followed by lunch.

 
For more information or to register, contact Jane Foley at (978) 369-9602 or This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. . Child care is available upon request.

Minister's Orientation

The Ministers are available for an orientation for those unable to attend a New UU workshop.  Contact Cassy Bosworth, Office Manager, to schedule an appointment at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or call 978-369-9602.  

Directions

First Parish in Concord is located at 20 Lexington Road, Concord, Massachusetts.

From the WEST: Take Route 2 EAST (Concord Turnpike) towards Boston. Take a left on Elm Street. Bear left on Main Street. At the rotary in the center of town, bear right onto Lexington Road. First Parish with be on your right.

From the EAST: Take Route 2 WEST (Concord Turnpike) towards Fitchburg. At the base of the hill when Route 2 turns left, go straight on the Cambridge Turnpike. At the stop sign, turn left onto Lexington Road.

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Maps courtesy of Google Maps

Weddings

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Weddings at First Parish are Unitarian Universalist services, led by one of our ministers, occasionally assisted by a minister or other cleric who is a friend or family member of the couple.  Weddings are held in the Sanctuary, a classic New England meeting house that seats up to 500 guests, or in the Chapel, a smaller and more contemporary meeting space that seats up to 60 guests.  The Sanctuary has a Steinway piano and a classic pipe organ, and the Chapel has a small pipe organ.

Couples are invited and expected to meet at least twice with the minister who will lead their service, to become acquainted and to discuss their upcoming marriage, including the details of the wedding service.  The minister will provide a booklet of information and resources on weddings at First Parish, including a selection of popular readings, and some alternate versions of wedding vows.  Couples may also consider writing their own vows, in consultation with the minister.

First Parish employs a wedding coordinator, whose services are required for weddings with more than 25 guests.  The wedding coordinator meets with the couple for a tour of the building and facilities, explains the choreography of the service, and works with florists, photographers and caterers in regard to First Parish policies.  She is present for the rehearsal, and at the wedding she assists all participants with directions and timing as the service begins.

Couples who are interested in a wedding at First Parish can download a packet of basic information. After direct consultation with the parish adminstrator to determine an agreed-upon wedding date, an application fee, with the completed wedding application, confirms the wedding date in the First Parish calendar.

Couples who would like to visit the First Parish meeting house are invited to attend a Sunday morning worship service, at 9 a.m. or 11 a.m., or make an appointment to see the building at some other convenient time.

For more information or to schedule a wedding at First Parish, please email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or call the office at 978-369-9602.

Further information (pdf files)

Membership Policy as of February 8, 2010

A Member of First Parish includes one who:

  • Is sixteen years of age or older.
  • Is in general support of the purposes, goals, and programs of First Parish.
  • Has signed the Membership Book in the presence of the Minister. (Ideally having attended orientation sessions conducted by the Membership Committee in conjunction with the Minister.)
  • Makes an annual financial contribution of record (not required of those 16-21 years of age.)  (Members are welcome to consult with a minister if contributing is a concern).
  • Contributes time and talent toward church functioning.

Being a Member of First Parish allows one to:

  • Chair committees.
  • Vote at annual meetings beginning 30 days after signing the Membership Book.
  • Help choose new ministers.
  • Represent First Parish at regional and national events.
  • Take priority over non-members at retreats and other activities when attendance must be limited.
  • Receive a discount on adjunct services and activities. (Program fees may differ for membership categories.)
  • Participate in certain special programs such as OWL, Coming of Age, and service trips.

A Friend of First Parish:

  • Is in general support of the purposes, goals, and programs of First Parish.
  • Does not wish to sign the membership book.
  • Is encouraged to make an annual financial contribution.
  • Is welcome to contribute time and talent toward church functioning.

Removal from active membership:  A Member may be moved to inactive status upon:                                

  • A written request from the Member.
  • An oral request from the Member to the Minister.
  • Review and consultation by the ministers, if this Member has not fulfilled the conditions of membership as stated above, has not made a request to become a Friend and has neither contacted nor responded to efforts to reestablish contact with First Parish for 2 years.
  • Death of the Member.

An Honorary Member is one who: 

  • Has been a longstanding member of First Parish whose circumstances prevent participation but whose past contributions are honored.

 

* Exceptions to this membership policy are made at a Minister’s discretion.

History of First Parish

By Leslie Perrin Wilson,
Curator, Concord Free Library's Special Collections

Editor's Note: The author has recently catalogued and produced a finding aid for the First Parish's records and artifacts dating from the 17th century through the mid-1990s, with the aid of Judith Gray and Jessica Sims. More current records are now kept by the church. For the full finding aid and a list of these fascinating holdings, click here.

fp.jpgIn 2004, the First Parish in Concord gave a large collection of its historic records to the Concord Free Public Library. The recent processing of this rich material provides a natural opportunity to take stock of the long history of Concord's Unitarian-Universalist church, which was first gathered in 1636 in Cambridge, Massachusetts. Its first ministers, Peter Bulkeley and John Jones, were formally installed in 1637, in Cambridge.
The original meetinghouse was built on the hill on the opposite side of Lexington Road from the present location of the church. A second meetinghouse was built between 1667 and 1673, a third in 1711. The third meetinghouse, renovated in 1791 and again in 1841 (when it was turned 90 degrees to face Lexington Road), burned to the ground on April 12, 1900. A fourth meetinghouse was built 1900-1901 to replace and (as much as possible) to reproduce the old building. Church school facilities and a chapel were added in 1955, kitchen renovations undertaken in 1974, and additional classroom space and handicapped accessibility created in 1984/85.

Ministers of the church have been: Peter Bulkeley, 1636-1659; John Jones, 1636-1644; Edward Bulkeley, 1659-1696; Joseph Estabrook, 1667-1711; John Whiting, 1712-1737; Daniel Bliss, 1739-1764; William Emerson (Ralph Waldo Emerson's grandfather), 1765-1776; Ezra Ripley, 1778-1841; Hersey B. Goodwin, 1830-1836; Barzillai Frost, 1837-1857; Grindall Reynolds, 1858-1881; Benjamin R. Bulkeley, 1882-1893; Loren B. Macdonald, 1895-1924; Johannes A.C. Fagginger Auer, 1926-1930; Edward Perry Daniels, 1931-1956; Robert D. Richardson, 1956-1957; Arthur B. Jellis, 1957-1970; Dana McLean Greeley, 1970-1986; Gary E. Smith, 1988 to the present (2005). (Charles Wilson served as Interim Minister between the ministries of Dana Greeley and Gary Smith.)

pewsth.jpgDuring the evangelical ministry of Daniel Bliss, a group of parishioners left to form their own church, which met at the Black Horse Tavern. In 1774 and 1775, the meetinghouse of the First Parish was used for Provincial Congress meetings, in 1775 and 1776 for classes of Harvard College, which was temporarily moved from Cambridge to Concord for the safety of the students in wartime. During Ezra Ripley's long ministry, the First Parish grew away from its original Congregational Calvinism toward Unitarianism. In 1826, a group desiring a more conservative form of worship broke away from the First Parish to establish Concord's Trinitarian Congregational Church.

In 1961, the American Unitarian Association merged with the Universalist Church of America, forming the Unitarian Universalist Association. The First Parish has been Unitarian Universalist since that time. At the meeting which approved the merger, a constitution for the new church was adopted and Dana McLean Greeley -- formerly president of the American Unitarian Association, later minister of the First Parish in Concord -- was made the first president of the Unitarian Universalist Association.

The official separation of the First Parish from the municipal government of Concord did not take place until 1855/56. Before that time, Parish business was transacted at the annual Concord town meeting. The first annual Parish meeting was held in 1856.

In early times, those who accepted the covenant could become church members and communicants. In 1856, with the separation of the First Parish from town government and financial support, the Parish (distinct from the church) was formed to take the place of the municipal government in managing First Parish affairs, and the Standing Committee created to serve as its primary administrative body. Between 1856 and 1946, membership in the Parish — the ability to vote in Parish meetings — also required a financial contribution.

During the 19th century, those wanting to become members of the Parish affirmed their wish in writing, and those who chose not to do so also expressed their will in letter form. (The First Parish records include two famous examples of this practice — Henry David Thoreau's 1841 Jan. 6 sign-off from membership, and Ralph Waldo Emerson's 1865 April 30 affirmation of membership.)

fptav.jpgThe Parish is governed by its membership at its annual meeting, and administered by the Standing Committee. The Trustees of Parish Donations manage the Parish's invested funds and real estate. A variety of other committees perform Parish duties. The Women's Parish Association (WPA), organized at the home of Caroline Downes Brooks Hoar (Mrs. Ebenezer Rockwood Hoar) in 1881, has since that time devoted particular attention to maintaining and furnishing the meetinghouse.

In addition to the meetinghouse and the land it occupies on Lexington Road, the church owns or has owned other real estate in the area, including: properties on the Church Green; the Wright Tavern; woodlots originally used for ministerial purposes (one of which was surveyed by Henry David Thoreau for the First Parish, the original 1851 manuscript survey for it forming part of the First Parish records); and the Stow House (92 Walden Street; used as the First Parish parsonage for much of the 20th century, and then sold).

The records of the First Parish reflect the more than three hundred years of the church's history. They represent an amalgamation of materials presented to the Concord Free Public Library over the years (singly or in small collections) by a number of individual donors, and of a large collection of records deposited by the First Parish in the Library Special Collections in the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s and formally deeded to the Library Corporation in 2004. Most of the collection was maintained by the First Parish until transfer to the Concord Free Public Library. Over the centuries of First Parish history, some records migrated from church custody into private hands, whence they were passed on to the Library.

These documents will be of interest to a variety of researchers: social historians; church historians; biographers of prominent individuals (Thomas Whitney Surette and Dana M. Greeley, for example) associated with the First Parish; local historians seeking to know more about the First Parish building, horsesheds, and the Wright Tavern; women's studies scholars, who may find the records of the Women's Parish Association valuable; historians of music; and others. Anyone with a potential use for the First Parish records is encouraged to contact the library's Special Collections.

Photos: Courtesy of the Special Collections of the Concord Free Public Library.